January 25, 2018
Every happy marriage has seen this day, when the number of arguments you have each day exceeds the time you spoke gently to each other, where you have stopped apologizing to each other after arguments or worse, you have started to hurt each other intentionally. You might think that divorce is the only option you have left but, it might not be too late. Maybe you can still make a go at this marriage and restore the harmony you had when you first got married. Below are some things you can do to give your marriage another or possibly last chance.
Talk to your partner
A real and civilized conversation is might be what your marriage needs. Make time to talk to your partner and tell them about your disappointments and hopes. Confide in them about why you think your marriage is not working anymore and get their response as well. Try to accept that your relationship has changed and lost its initial harmony. How can you build a new relationship with each other and do you still want to give a chance to your marriage? You should talk to your spouse in any case instead if complaining and venting to your friends and family, which will make you feel worse on every occasion.
Consult a Therapist
If your talk with your partner was successful then the next step should be consulting atherapist. A professional mediator can help you resolve your issues about your marriage and mediate between you and your spouse. You can also undergo different therapies that will aid you to let go of your past resentment and make a fresh start with your husband. But if you feel like even the therapist cannot help you then you might need to contact a divorce lawyer.
Be mindful of the timing
The timing is the most important factor when are considering a divorce. Bringing up this topic at the right place and time can avoid many fights and arguments. If you are having a baby or moving to new house, that might be a bad time to discuss a divorce. When you are going through a big life change, it puts more pressure on you and it can feel a bit burdening as well. Make a commitment to get through your new life adjustment before discussing and proceeding with the divorce.
Be practical and realistic
Realistically, a divorce is going to cost a fortune, and how are you going to support yourself after that? Think about financial situations practically. Do you have enough bank balance to support yourself and any children that you have? Is it good for the children? How are you going to manage the custody of your kids? These are the questions you need to ask yourself before getting a divorce.Evaluating your financial as well as mental condition is very important before you proceed with the divorce. If you still don’t want to live with your partner and want a divorce even after considering the above aspects, then you should file for a divorce.
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